College Process
This year it seems a record number of students applying to college have been deferred. Schools like Michigan, Georgetown, and Villanova, to name just a few, have received a record number of applications. While being deferred is different from being rejected, it has added a lot of stress to the lives of many of our students.
My first words to you are: do not panic. I know many students who did not go to their first or second choice schools and had a great college experience. The truth is that your number one choice is not based on a lot of information—usually only a quick visit and the reputation of the school. You get more information on a first date. I have long believed that the STUDENT is more important than the school. All schools allow you the opportunity to learn, cultivate your passion, and be successful.
Secondly, deferrals are not rejections, even though they sometimes feel that way to the student. Students often see being deferred as a sign of failure, but the truth is that just being in the hunt is quite an honor. The top-tier schools get many applications, all of them from highly qualified students.
One of the brightest students I have ever taught went to Towson. She was set to go to NYU when her funding disappeared, so she went to Towson instead. She was angry about it and started college with a horrible attitude. After two months, she loved the school, felt very challenged academically, and has now finished her PhD in psychology. My point is that you can find your way at any school.
You should think about the purpose of going to college. If it is to learn, grow, and develop your passion, then you can accomplish that at many different schools. Your focus should be on cultivating your passion instead of building your resume. This way you can find a job you absolutely love.
If you want to see what a famous psychologist thinks about college admissions, read here. Alumni who have graduated college or are in college, I would love to hear your thoughts.
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