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Belonging is a fundamental human need, especially during times of transition, such as starting college, taking difficult classes, or beginning a new job. At these moments, the sense of belonging can make all the difference in how someone adapts to their pristine environment. It is a time when people try to find their place, form new relationships, and establish a sense of identity in an unfamiliar setting. The need to feel connected and accepted is essential to our well-being and success in these new chapters of life.

Most people go through the experience of feeling like they do not belong. They might not express it or are simply better at faking it. It is important to realize that you are not the only person going through it. Given time, most people find that they do belong to that organization, school, or class.

Chris Walton, a researcher in social psychology, has explored the deep impact that belonging has on individuals during these transitional periods. His findings suggest that when people feel a keen sense of belonging, they are more likely to engage fully in their new roles, whether as students, employees, or members of a community. Walton's research highlights that belonging fosters resilience boosts self-esteem, and encourages a positive outlook, all of which are crucial for navigating the challenges that come with new beginnings.

As the academic year begins, or as people embark on new professional journeys, creating a sense of belonging becomes a collective responsibility. The effort to make others feel like they belong not only helps individuals but also strengthens the entire community, making it more cohesive and supportive.

For those entering these new phases, it is important to actively seek out opportunities to connect with others. Joining clubs, participating in group activities, or simply reaching out to peers can help establish that crucial sense of belonging. Walton's work emphasizes that these connections are not just about forming friendships—they are about building a network of support that can sustain individuals through the highs and lows of their journey.

In summary, belonging is a powerful force, especially during times of transition like starting college, new classes, or jobs. Chris Walton's research underscores its importance, showing that a keen sense of belonging can enhance personal and professional outcomes. The challenge for all of us experienced people is to help others feel like they belong and remind them that we ourselves once felt that way.