I was working with a student one on one the other day. I noticed that he seemed much more confident with me than he did when I called on him in class. When I asked him why, he said, “we have a lot of very smart students in our class. I do not want to look dumb in front of them”.
To try to overcome this feeling that students have I started the year implementing the fifty-blunder challenge. That challenge is when the students catch me with fifty blunders then I buy them all donuts. Last week the fiftieth blunder was recorded (I probably blunder 50 other times that they missed), and my students enjoyed the donuts.
The message was that the person who made the most mistakes in the class was the teacher. If the teacher is making mistakes than students should feel comfortable making mistakes
What prevents many people
from asking questions is fear and self-doubt. How many great ideas, how
many great questions go unheard because people are scared? While it
would be great to promise you that nobody is going to judge you, the truth is
that there will always be the critics. What we need to do is tune out the
people who criticize us but are too afraid to take the risks themselves.
The second critic we
would need to shut out is ourselves. Many of us are our own worst critics
which often prevents us going beyond our potential. We need to realize that if we take risks that
we are going to find failure. The key is
how we handle this failure. Do we learn
from our mistakes? Do we fall like a
five and rebound like a ten?
This is not to say that we do not need constructive feedback. I am trying to put together a group of teachers who will watch each other teach, give constructive feedback which will help all of us improve+. All of us need to be vulnerable for this group to be truly successful and trust each other.
I will leave you with some questions you can ask yourself
as you try to change your mindset to be more comfortable taking risks. What did you disagree with today? What did you learn from somebody who disagreed with
you? What have you failed at
recently? Is there another way to
solve that problem?
The challenge is to make sure that the good questions and great ideas get out in the open. Without risks there can not be rewards