Tuesday, October 28, 2014

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Here is a post from a former student about his first year of college life


The Struggle is VERY real
I just wanted to take this time to address some of the questions that people typically have when thinking about college and the atmosphere involved. Now while I can shed light from my personal experience, I do recognize that my experience is not the "common college life" nor is it reflective of what you'll find at every single institution, but there are moments that are attributable to just about every freshmen. For starters, as a kid who was taken and plopped in a new environment several times over the course of his life, I know how hard it can be to find your place in a new atmosphere, but you should know that everything WILL be okay. You'll attend those mandatory meetings with the same annoyance and frustration as your fellow classmates, but you'll also bond with people who you normally never would've considered talking to in the past. After a week you might or might not be tired of introducing yourself by name, place of origin, major, and favorite hobby, but you'll also come to the realization that everyone else has been doing the same. And when classes start, things will seem difficult because it's different from what you're used to. But remember that at the end of the day, that's all it is. Different. Nobody expected you to be Michael Jordan after picking up a basketball for the first time. No one expected you to be the next Picasso after your first art class and nobody can expect for you to pick up the swing of things as if you had been doing it all your life. College isn't easy, and high school as an institution can't prepare you for the type of work that you'll face, but regardless of where you are, you need to remember that there are people who are in the same collective struggle. Talk to them. Find commonalities in work ethic and in the social sphere as well because when you do, things become a lot easier. 

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